Breathing Room For The Soul

Happy Fall Friends! Can you believe it? It’s finally here! The most beautiful season there is. There is such a comfort in the autumn air and beauty that casts its beams of light everywhere. It makes one wish that it would linger a little longer. I wonder to myself if I wait upon the Lord as much as I wait upon this season. Do I crave the first glimpse of His coming and the comfort that comes from within Him? Do I wish to feel His light brush my face as He comes closer and want more time with Him? How different our lives might be if we approached the creator like we anticipate this season that He created. Fall is the only season that really makes me want to have a pic-nic, sit in the leaves with a PSL and just enjoy the prettiness of it all. We live about 20 minutes from the Blue Ridge Parkway and recently I have been wanting to take a drive through the mountains, put on an oversized sweater and reduce the idea of having a time limit while I’m up there. It’s so beautiful yall! If you are ever close to the Blue Ridge Mountains in the fall you must go. Once again, what if I approached Jesus like I do this season. To take a day putting no restrictions on it and spend time with Him enjoying His beauty. Yes this season is beautiful but His love for us is even more beautiful and He craves spending time with us even more than we crave this season. There really is no comparison to how much His loves us. So today maybe your busy, stretched with time limits and can’t see past the … [Read more...]

  It was almost over. I waited on the other side of the gate as everyone unloaded from the ride. It wasn’t a huge ride, but big enough that younger children had an adult that rode along. Our children were past that stage, so I smiled, waved, and took the memory keeping snapshots. The ride stopped, and everyone unloaded, heading quickly for the exit gate. The first person pushed. It didn’t open. They looked around for the person making sure the ride went smoothly. Others came. Adults pushed. The line was getting long . . . On both sides of the gate. All were looking around, trying to figure out why the gate wouldn’t open. Then, one small boy — not over intelligent looking — just an average boy stepped up to the gate. He saw things different than everyone else. He simply pulled instead of push — and what do you know! It opened! I nearly laughed aloud. One small boy with the ability to simply pull instead of push opened the gate so everyone else could get out into the open space. Remember another young boy? The armor didn’t fit. He saw things differently. He used a sling and a stone. Then, there was the One who taught in the temple. He, too, saw things differently. He thought his parents would know He was “about His Father’s business.” Faith has a vision all its own. Born into the hearts of those who embrace its vision it takes its viewers to places others rarely even imagine. Faith that sees beyond leads with a hope that others want to follow. It sees … [Read more...]

Did you know that God’s presence has no limits? There is no place that we can go where God can’t meet us. God never goes off the grid to stroll along sandy beaches. He can sweep us up in His love any second of the day. In a world packed with apple watches and cheap plane flights, God never once thinks of leaving. We must look at Christ and His love for us completely different from any love we’ve ever known. There are no conditions to tie around His willingness to love us. I think sometimes we confuse our circumstances with His love, which in reality don’t relate at all. God’s love doesn’t lessen over a job promotion or a relationship status. It stays steady, never wavering. Have you ever looked over your life and thought “I can’t believe I’m still here, in this situation that I thought was temporary”. Maybe you thought God’s plan for your life was completely different. You’re confused and seeking answers. I felt like today I should whisper through the screen to you a message of hope. God’s plan for your life is still ongoing. Maybe this little story will help you understand. There is a school play with the 4th grade class. Everyone is quieting down as the lights do the same. Out of the side entrance of the stage walks out a freckled face little boy dressed as a star. He walked to the middle, where the spotlight hit in a circle and then began to sing. "Twinkle, Twinkle". At this moment the curtain was supposed to come down and a big papier-mache moon was meant to … [Read more...]

The beginnings of fall are here again, and school is in full swing for some people – nearly ready to start for others. New beginnings, new teachers, new friends – the mornings which begin before the sun comes up. There is always something special about beginning new, but sometimes it can be just a little frustrating. I remember well my first day of – I think it was fifth grade. (Shh. . . it’s been a few years ago!) We didn’t have uniforms, and my mom was quite a seamstress. I was so excited because mom made me a brand-new dress. It was a brown plaid with lovely yellow buttons. I felt so good in that dress. (Yes, styles were different then, too.) I wasn’t nearly as excited about the “briefcase looking” red, and blue with silver buckles, book bag my dad convinced me would be the best thing for that year. Have you ever heard the old saying, “Two’s company, three’s a crowd?” Well, I had two very good friends, but that old adage has never been truer. Sometimes they liked me, sometimes they liked each other, but it seemed like it never was the same, no matter what I did. (They probably felt the same way about me!) It changed with the weather – causing my emotions to do the same! We “had a talk” about the situation and decided we were “growing up” we decided, and it was time to get along! So, here we all came on the first day of school. I had a new dress, and a new determination to have better relationships with my friends. What could go wrong? School began and soon it … [Read more...]

She stepped onto the cold concrete heading for the door with blue ribbons tied in her pigtails. It was all she could do not to drag her overflowing backpack. With a bittersweet smile she found her classroom and organized her school supplies. New stuff, new shoes, new friends and a new school. She was beginning to not like that word, new. The clock drug on through the day, the new girl couldn’t wait to get home but first there was Math. She knew she didn’t like that word either. The teacher explained something called division and then asked if anyone didn’t understand and would like a repeat of the lesson. Being the rookie, the girl didn’t want to raise her hand, what if everyone else understood it but her. Behind her, a little curly headed brunet raised her hand. Oh good, I can just turn around and watch her, she thought. Have you ever tried to read something upside down?? Not easy right? Well this was the problem, the little girl still didn’t understand so this time she raised her hand. The teacher thought it ridiculous that she asked for help considering she had turned around and seen it all again. No, they must move on, there wasn’t enough time. She shrunk in her chair and for years to come, she struggled with division. I have been asking God for some inspiration to write recently and He reminded me of this story. I think because for a long time I felt like to spend time with Him I had to have a good prayer ready and I couldn’t possibly come to God with too many issues … [Read more...]

A pair of shoes were the need of the day. My husband and I drove the few miles to the store, and as my “custom” I began the search at the clearance rack. Nothing. So, I began trying on shoe after shoe, after shoe, after shoe. Finally, I spotted the person I believed to be a store associate. “Do you work here . . .” my voice trailed away as I saw her hurrying by, shoe boxes in hand. “Oh, you’re helping another custom . . .” my voice trailed away again as she swiftly moved on. Believe it or not, she came my way in the next few minutes! Telling her what I was looking for, she directed me to the right area. FINALLY, I found the “perfect fit.” However, I was a bit confused. The sale tag hanging down to give me a “deal” was marked higher than the tag with the actual price. I laughed and showed my husband. “How can the sale price be more than regular price?” I asked. Time to check out. I carried my newfound shoes, AND the display with the two prices to the front to see what was the “real deal.” The gentleman in the front was puzzled at first. He checked on one computer. Then he checked on another computer. Then he said, “Well, it looks like the price has changed, and they didn’t change the tag. Since the regular price is lower, I’ll have to give it to you for that price.” Then he said, “I used to work in that department and have to go and change all those tags. I can see how they could miss one . . .” He wasn’t disturbed and this situation. He wasn’t upset at the associated … [Read more...]

    Have you ever thought about God’s creativity? It’s everywhere. He didn’t just cast a sky into creation, He colored it making it a beautiful centerpiece for the whole world. When God picked up the paintbrush to create the beautiful you-He smiled. His design was coming to life becoming His most beloved cherished child. One of my favorite things to do when I have time is going to an Art Gallery. I can stay for hours studying the strokes of the painter. Walk around the marble or aged wooden floors with no clue of the time. I think about how the artist feels in the process of his/her creation. What they are seeing in their mind becomes reality and even if you’re at a kindergarten level when it comes to art-it is exciting. Can you imagine how God felt when He created you? His most prized possession is you. His love for you surpasses the shells in the ocean and the sand on the sea. It’s better than any dream, yet sometimes we lose focus of our worth. The ghosts in our closet prevent us from moving on and choosing to love who God made us to be. You look in the mirror and all you can see is yesterday’s makeup and tomorrow fake lashes. A terrifying cycle of pain. If we could only see the pain before it arrives maybe we could prepare for it. Maybe it wouldn’t hurt as bad if we wore thicker skin. Negative. It’s gonna hurt either way-the only step you can take to defeat the pain is to give it Jesus and forgive yourself.   In one of my … [Read more...]

  From the daughter... There’s a sweet memory I replay a lot in my head. In this one I remember a bright sunny day hopping in the van and asking mama where we were off to. Mama loved the sun, she loved the warmer temps, oh and one more thing, flowers. Mama loved flowers. You might be in a pickle but carry in some flowers and her sweet heart just melted. This particular day she told me we were off to go get some to brighten the household up. I loved outings with her, I really did, maybe because it was just me & her along with 5 other boys in the house. HA Wherever she went I followed- she always made it fun. She stopped the big van on the side of the road that day and I’ll never forget how surprised I was that we were picking flowers. That was my favorite day. The wild flowers we picked sat pretty in a vase for a week or so but the memory of that day has never left me. We still love doing things together. We travel every week together and in all honestly I sit back amazed at how blessed I am. Thanks Mama! I know you could never be told that enough. Your sunshine itself in so many ways but the most important one is that everywhere you go you show the beautiful love of Jesus. Your tender heart wants to help everyone and care for them like you do your own. You give more sacrificially than anyone I have ever seen and I pray someday to be just like you. I could go on and tell you all story after story of how this lady has lived and is living an … [Read more...]